"I got this."
"I can figure it out myself, no problem."
"I'm gonna Hulk through this and get it done."
"They are so lucky I'm here to help."
"I'm totally the rock of our (workplace/family/friend group/church)."
"I would 100% rather GIVE help than RECEIVE it. And HEAVEN FORBID I should have to ASK for any. "
I've LIVED ALL of the above, how about you? Because, why not?
Self-Reliance.
Independence.
Contributing Citizens
It's what every parent dreams they instill in their kids. So we can be productive, helpful members of society with full medical benefits. Because, so we're taught, noone wants to be living at home when they could be living by themselves. Or do we?
What are the downfalls of this "I don't want or need help" mindset? What are we missing by adopting this way of thinking? What harm are we causing ourselves and our children?
Join me and listen how to unburden yourself from the Helper-and-never-Helped mantle TO unlock your Genius and Joy!
How can we let down the mantle and let in support?
1) Practice Shoes: mindset that everything is practice; no black/white right/wrong thinking.
2) Let the crutch go: letting go of what others think; building up from within
3) Take baby steps: practice gratefully receiving
4) Power Voice: asking for help
5) Power Pants: positive reframe on asking for help
Discover more Playshops to Liberate your Heart and Soul from Self-Defeating Patterns like Guilt and Regret
Sign up for encouraging, heartwarming inspiring messages from Heidi Esther and get a free Jumpstart to Joy Guide, with playful exercises to get you to joy - no matter what kinda time you have - at https://heidiesther.com/joy
Are you ready to Learn the 5 Steps of Self-Leadership that will help you peel back the layers and Lead you to Joy, on your own terms? Then go to http://heidiesther.com/steps today!
You can watch all of my episodes on YouTube @HeidiEsther
or Join my neighborhood online at http://Facebook.com/groups/MyJoyfullyEverAfter
"I got this."
"I can figure it out myself, no problem."
"I'm gonna Hulk through this and get it done."
"They are so lucky I'm here to help."
"I'm totally the rock of our (workplace/family/friend group/church)."
"I would 100% rather GIVE help than RECEIVE it. And HEAVEN FORBID I should have to ASK for any. "
I've LIVED ALL of the above, how about you? Because, why not?
Self-Reliance.
Independence.
Contributing Citizens
It's what every parent dreams they instill in their kids. So we can be productive, helpful members of society with full medical benefits. Because, so we're taught, noone wants to be living at home when they could be living by themselves. Or do we?
What are the downfalls of this "I don't want or need help" mindset? What are we missing by adopting this way of thinking? What harm are we causing ourselves and our children?
Join me and listen how to unburden yourself from the Helper-and-never-Helped mantle TO unlock your Genius and Joy!
How can we let down the mantle and let in support?
1) Practice Shoes: mindset that everything is practice; no black/white right/wrong thinking.
2) Let the crutch go: letting go of what others think; building up from within
3) Take baby steps: practice gratefully receiving
4) Power Voice: asking for help
5) Power Pants: positive reframe on asking for help
Discover more Playshops to Liberate your Heart and Soul from Self-Defeating Patterns like Guilt and Regret
Sign up for encouraging, heartwarming inspiring messages from Heidi Esther and get a free Jumpstart to Joy Guide, with playful exercises to get you to joy - no matter what kinda time you have - at https://heidiesther.com/joy
Are you ready to Learn the 5 Steps of Self-Leadership that will help you peel back the layers and Lead you to Joy, on your own terms? Then go to http://heidiesther.com/steps today!
You can watch all of my episodes on YouTube @HeidiEsther
or Join my neighborhood online at http://Facebook.com/groups/MyJoyfullyEverAfter